Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Being Served

from: https://www.boredpanda.com/usa-army-serving-stories-memorial-day/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=organic

These 30 Responses To U.S. Army Asking ‘How Has Serving Impacted You?’ Was Not What They Were Expecting To Hear

Memorial Day weekend is meant to be a time of reflection to honor the Americans who have served, so two days before the weekend the U.S. Army reached out to veterans via Twitter to ask them to share how their service had impacted their lives – and it’s easy to say it backfired.
The innocent tweet was intended to stir up stories of patriotic pride, and while some did share positive experiences about how their time gave them self-confidence, an overwhelming amount shared dark and heartbreaking tales. The stories came from both veterans themselves and people who had met or were the family of service men and women. Tales ranged from vets who had returned with debilitating posttraumatic stress disorder, to those who had ended up committing suicide.
According to reports from the U.S. Department of Veteran Affairs, about 30% of Vietnam veterans, 12% of Gulf War veterans and 11% to 20% of Operations Iraqi Freedom and Enduring Freedom veterans are living with post-traumatic stress disorder. As for suicide rates the numbers are disproportionately affecting vets, with more than 6,000 veterans dying by suicide between 2008 to 2016 and an average of 20 veterans dying by suicide each day between 2013 and 2014.

The U.S Army reached out to vets on Twitter to ask how their service had impacted their lives

Image credits: USArmy

But instead of just patriotic pride, they received a thread of heartbreaking responses

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Mewton’s Third Paw 2 days ago (edited)
This should be number one. It’s not just about the trauma these people face but rather the fact that it’s all based on greed, corruption, lies, and hatred of the American people at large, and anyone who isn’t in the ruling class.
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Lina S. 2 days ago
This is horrible.
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Two years ago President Donald Trump tweeted “will not accept or allow transgender individuals to serve in any capacity,” and this year the policy has gone into effect. Lt. Col. Carla M. Gleason, a Pentagon spokesperson, told BuzzFeed News, that it was not a ban but that “new recruits will be rejected if they’ve undergone a gender transition, that they cannot transition while in service, and they must conform to the uniform and fitness standards of their birth sex.” The estimated number of trans people serving in the military ranged from 2,150 to 15,000.
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Elisabeth Bergbom 1 day ago
First they experience war on the outside, then war on the inside. It all leaves scars. We need to talk more about this
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TinTin 1 day ago
Thank you for your service. I am sick that has happened.Please know you are not dishonored by many, many people in the U.S. and the world. You are a hero in my eyes.
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One out of three veterans seeking treatment for substance abuse, including alcohol use disorder, have PTSD. Overall about three-quarters of people who have survived abuse or violent trauma report that they struggle with alcohol abuse. People who struggle with PTSD and chronic pain struggle more frequently with alcohol abuse.
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JillVille 2 days ago
This is so sad :( That poor man!
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Elisabeth Bergbom 1 day ago
"You guys sent him back in a box" is literally the most heartbreaking thing ever
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Awkward Manatee 1 day ago
oh wow these... they're powerful
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study by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration revealed that only 50 percent of returning vets who need veteran mental health treatment will receive these services. Both active duty service members and veterans face barriers to treatment for mental health issues: Personal embarrassment about service-related mental disabilities, long wait times to receive mental health treatment, shame over needing to seek mental health treatment, fear of being seen as weak, Stigma associated with mental health issues, a lack of understanding or lack of awareness about mental health problems and treatment options, logistical problems, such as long travel distances in order to receive this type of care, concerns over the veteran mental health treatment offered by the VA, demographic barriers and false perceptions based on these demographics such as age or gender.
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The Dutches 1 day ago
I am sorry for the injustice your people have suffered.
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Matt 1 day ago
*Disposable heroes by Metallica plays in background*
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Dani 1 day ago (edited)
"😭" doesn't cut it. I died a little inside thinking of these two brothers. One dead, one the closest thing to death that isnt, because of military duty. A family ruined. What hit me hardest was "I don't know where he is or if he's still alive." I have two siblings and can't imagine anything like this, but I'm sure that they couldn't either, until it actually happened
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Katri 2 days ago
I dont even know why I'm trying to explain this but here goes - logical thinking and understanding cause and effect might be significantly blurred in people suffering from PTSD. You can't even begin to comprehend the complex mindset one must be in when committing suicide.
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From 1961 to 1971, the U.S. sprayed more than 20 million gallons of various herbicides over Vietnam, Cambodia and Laos and according to the EPA, Agent Orange, which contains the poisonous chemical dioxin, was the most commonly used. An estimated 2.8 million U.S. vets who were exposed to Agent Orange while on-duty later died.
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Mewton’s Third Paw 2 days ago
Almost every conflict that we’ve ever been involved in has been for the express benefit of imperialist scum. It’s never been about protecting America.
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Tracee Jeen 1 day ago
I think it's hi-time we ALL talk about this.
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Lukas Stone 1 day ago
Hold on a minute, your grandmother knocked out your uncle with a frying pan?
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Jace 1 day ago
And now some fuckers think it makes some kind of dog damned sense to set off fireworks for fucking MEMORIAL Day. WTF? THREE DAYS of fireworks this weekend. Never before have I noticed fireworks set off for MEMORIAL DAY.
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Dana 1 day ago
God, that is so sad, so young...
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Ladies and Gentlemen 2 days ago
Three fewer friends!!!!, boy that statement did hit me hard!
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Kyana Winter 1 day ago
This one really got to me... so upsetting T_T
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Ladies and Gentlemen 2 days ago
Jesus, that's so heartbreaking even to read... what the person is experiencing and is really living with all this is unimaginable for me. I have no words to say! :(
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Awkward Manatee 1 day ago
"haven't seen him since 1993" ...
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Dani 1 day ago (edited)
My grandfather on my dad's side did not serve, but he grew up in a WWII-era Taiwan occupied by the Japanese. As he aged, he got dementia, and even though he loved everything Japan- Japanese was his preferred language- he hated the bombs. Planes would fly over our house and he would cry and tell us that "they" were coming and they were going to bomb us and he needed to save us. I was four years old and I didn't understand. I laughed and told him they were just jets. Then one day a couple years ago my sister reminded me of those days and I was just like "Holy frick oh my god I get it now." But my Akong is long dead and there is nothing I could do anymore. By the time I could do something, I cpuldnt. Goes to show, you don't have to serve. War is scarring all around. It may benefit the state but it destroys the individual.
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Wil Vanderheijden 1 day ago
A veteran describing how his life has fallen apart telling people to love one another. He's showing more courage then tangerine turd could ever even dream off.
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Mewton’s Third Paw 2 days ago (edited)
“Some folks are born Made to wave the flag Ooh, they're red, white and blue And when the band plays "Hail to the Chief" Ooh, they point the cannon at you It ain't me, it ain't me I ain't no senator's son, son It ain't me, it ain't me I ain't no fortunate one, no”
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Patti Brock 1 day ago
I agree!
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THE ULTIMATE PUGTATO >_< 2 days ago
I’m really sorry. Going into any type of military services can be scarring
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Dani 1 day ago
I'm- I'm done. Starting this post was a mistake. I need memes. Now.
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Russian Otaku 13 hours ago
Funny thing about the military is that contracts are only allowed to be broken by the military...
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Susan Nelson 1 day ago
My brother served in VietNam as a Marine Scout/Sniper. On his return home, he was afraid to sleep in-doors. He slept in our back yard for months. (Always with a rifle). He tried really hard to adjust; he married, they had a baby, he had a good job. But as a year passed, he drank and smoked and God knows what else and the gradual change in him sped up. He was killed in a motorcycle/vehicle accident in 1972 and our little family, his little family were and continue to be just wrecked. People, please understand these Vets need so much help after their service because all governments only use them as cannon fodder. They were never expected to come home alive. The U.S. Government still thinks of them as expendables and they always will.
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Monday, May 27, 2019

Late Monday Smile

I am the queen of what people below are calling "brain freezes", i.e. forgetting a very common word when communicating with people.  Here are some other people's experiences



People Share Their Brainfart Moments Where They Failed To Remember a Basic Word

We’ve all been there. You’re in the middle of a conversation or a presentation and suddenly your mind goes blank. What was that basic word, the one that I really really should know? Your panicked reaction to this untimely brainfart only makes things worse, as your mind desperately scrabbles for an alternative…
Hello my name is Paul, I have a PhD in physics and thanks to a random brain freeze forgot the word for photon so had to call it a "shiny crumb" in front of my colleagues.
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One of my cleverest and most fabulous friends at university (now PhD in neuroscience) once forgot the word for what she wanted in a restaurant and tried to explain with "like a really REALLY wet salad". Soup. She wanted soup.
One of the guys I used to work with forgot the name for a tape measure - called it a "how far machine" - it's passed into everyday vocabulary now!
My brother in law said couldn't remember the word "friends", so called them "the people you don't hate".
As a bilingual person I do this all the time. Although my problem is I can often think of the word in the other language but not the one I'm speaking in right now. I once had to describe pineapple as a hairy pear with a ponytail because I couldn't translate ananas from FR to EN.
Not in the same delightful league, but in the final throes of writing SATC, I forgot the word 'fork' while sitting in a restaurant. I asked a waiter for "one of the metal things with four stabby fingers". Obviously, he looked at me like I was insane.
When I was pregnant with my first, I cried one day because I forgot the word "banana." I described it to my then-husband, "It comes it its own case! It's yellow!"
Not in the same league, but I once completely blanked on 'Iceberg Lettuce' and had to call it 'Arctic Cabbage' instead. My wife has never, ever, let me forget that one. It was over 25 years ago.
I'm a prosecutor. During a particularly dramatic closing argument years ago, I forgot the defendant's name. "And that's why you should find … (pause) … (pause) … THAT GUY guilty!" And so I learned why prosecutors always say "the defendant." :-)
Reminds me of my two year old daughter explaining a hot dog to me as a "meat pickle".
During a lecture on the Mannheim Orchestra, I couldn't remember the term "tremolo," so I described the orchestra's fondness for decorating passages with the "nervous chihuahua" effect.
I am a nurse: once called a woman to pick up her husband, forgot the word nurse & said "Hi Mrs.X I'm your husbands wife." without missing a beat she says "He didn't tell me he got remarried". Now whenever I call family I have to repeat to myself "nurse not wife, nurse not wife".
I forgot the word "articulate" in an interview for a voluntary post and instead said "I'm good at saying things". I am a criminal barrister.
Hello. I have a degree in English Lit and thanks to a random brain freeze, I forgot the word for "memory", so I had to call it a "remembrance thought".
Haha my sympathies. Shiny crumb is a much better name for it. My 17yo forgot the word for "foal" in the summer and called it a "horse puppy" instead. I don't think any one of us will ever use the word "foal" again...
I taught English for many years and the moment I had to take an oral IELTS test I forgot the word for "puppies" and said "small dog babies".
I once forgot the word "table" and called it flat surface with legs. The person I was talking with knew what I meant as she is one of my people too.
A friend in uni tried to explain he was looking for "an out-pouch to hold fluid" at a party. A cup. He wanted a cup.
Hi, I'm El and I've been a barista for almost 5 years and I forgot the word for "lid" so I called it "teapot rooftop" once. :D
I once forgot the words for "Christmas tree" and asked a shop assistant where the light bush decorations were.
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Friday, May 24, 2019

"NEW CHRISTIANITY"







Christian TV Host Rick Wiles claims that conservative Christians will “impose Christian rule in this country.”





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Chick-fil-A won’t stop donating to anti-LGBTQ groups,
says it’s part of a “higher calling”


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According to  “Firefighter Prophet” Mark Taylor, natural disasters, specifically hurricanes
and tornadoes, are weapons utilized by the left in order to combat the agenda
of 
President Trump and religious conservatives.

Coincidence that Missouri was hit with Tornadoes right after they signed the abortion bill? That same line of storms had Tornado warning in DC yesterday right before Trump gave ok for declass. The enemy is trying to intimidate. It won't work, your a defeated enemy! Victory! ...-
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Sunday, May 05, 2019

Monday Morning Smile

I saw this on Facebook over the weekend and literally could NOT stop laughing.  Apparently a photographer came up with the brilliant idea of using the cats' fur to make "hats" for the cats.  Here's the link to the story:  http://purrshare.com/photographer-becomes-famous-overnight-for-amazing-cat-hats-he-makes-by-hand-using-their-own-fur/

Photographer Becomes Famous Overnight For Amazing Cat Hats He Makes By Hand, Using Their Own Fur!





Sunday, April 28, 2019

Monday Morning Smile

MAD Magazine artists Al Jaffee and Will Elder, in the lunchroom of The High School of Music and Art of New York, 1936

The SCOTUS Women

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